Give your finger to support your child, not your entire hand to hold for lifetime else they never be able to survive without you. If you want to make your child independent and confident in future follow steps from now only:

• Don’t feed your child, let them eat by themselves. Let them starve to develop sense of hunger.
• Let them wear their cloths on their own with your little help.
• Let them decide which color things they want. This help them to develop decision making power in them.
• Let them pack their school bag. If they forget anything, let them face the situation so from very young age they become very particular.
• In school if they have not completed their books, please don’t call other parents but tell child to copy from friend’s book next day. This creates realization in child that how it feels if I don’t complete books. It makes them responsible.